Welcome to Missouri’s premier social home for the Kink and BDSM communities.

Welcome to ShowMeKink

ShowMeKink is a community-focused Mastodon server dedicated to providing a safe, digital "munch" for the Missouri kink community. Whether you’re a seasoned veteran of the local scene or a newcomer curious about the Show-Me State's alternative lifestyles, this is your space to connect, share, and learn without the watchful eye of corporate algorithms.

Who We Are

This instance is independently owned and operated by a small collective of Missouri-based community leaders and educators. We aren't a giant tech corporation; we are your neighbors—the same people you see at local workshops, dungeon nights, and coffee meetups from Kansas City to St. Louis, and Springfield to Columbia.

Who It’s For

We built this specifically for kinksters, leatherfolk, and practitioners of BDSM who call Missouri home.

• The Local Connection: Perfect for those looking to find out about upcoming local events, workshops, or just to chat about the best spots in town for a vanilla-friendly meetup.
• Safe Harbor: An inclusive space for LGBTQ+ folks, neurodivergent individuals, and people of all experience levels.
• Missouri Residents Only: While we federate with the wider Fediverse, our local timeline is dedicated to those living in or frequently visiting the 417, 314, 816, and 573.

A Safe Digital Munch

Think of this server as an online munch. Just like a physical munch, the focus here is on social connection and community building, not just "the scene."

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  Moderation with Nuance: Our moderators understand the local scene and the specific safety needs of our community. We enforce a strict "Consent First" policy and have zero tolerance for harassment or "creeping."
  
  
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  Privacy First: Mastodon allows for granular privacy controls. You can keep your posts local, use Content Warnings (CWs) for sensitive topics, and build your profile at your own pace.
  
  
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  Education & Support: We prioritize sharing resources on RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) to ensure everyone has the tools to play safely.
  
  

Ready to join the table? Pull up a chair, introduce yourself, and help us build a stronger, more connected Missouri kink community. Please read our Server Rules and Code of Conduct before requesting an invite!

1. All users must be 18 years of age or older. No exceptions.
2. Use Content Warnings (CW) for all adult or kink-related text and mark all explicit media as Sensitive.
3. Maintain a strictly consensual environment. Harassment, stalking, or non-consensual interactions will result in immediate expulsion.
4. This server is dedicated to the Missouri kink community. Users should have a tangible connection to the state.
5. Strictly no illegal content under United States or Missouri law.
6. Respect the norms of other servers when interacting outside our local timeline.